You were told not to question. We’re here to teach you how.
This page is for anyone picking up the scattered pieces of belief, asking big questions, and realizing that faith rooted in fear isn’t sacred — it’s a cage.


You’ll find tools here to analyze doctrine, spot manipulation, and rebuild a worldview that’s yours, not theirs.

Logical Fallacies 101

If your beliefs can’t survive logic, they’re not divine.

  • Circular reasoning ("The Bible is true because the Bible says it's true")

  • Appeals to authority ("The pastor said so")

  • False dichotomy ("You're either holy or worldly")

  • Slippery slope ("If you wear pants, you'll fall into sin")

  • Strawman ("You just want to sin")

Doctrine Comparison

Hover over or click each button to compare doctrines

God

UPCI:

Oneness (God is one person, Jesus is God incarnate)

Other Traditions:

Trinity (Father, Son, Holy Spirit as distinct persons)

Secular/Humanist:

Concept of God varies or is not relevant; focus is on human agency

Salvation

UPCI:

Requires repentance, baptism in Jesus' name, and speaking in tongues

Other Traditions:

Faith in Jesus, grace, baptism optional or symbolic

Secular/Humanist:

No spiritual salvation needed; focus on personal growth and well-being

Hell

UPCI:

Literal eternal torment for the unsaved

Other Traditions:

Some literal, others see it as metaphor or absence

Secular/Humanist:

No belief in hell; accountability is a human concern

Modesty

UPCI:

Strict dress codes; women can't cut hair or wear pants

Other Traditions:

Broadly interpreted based on culture

Secular/Humanist:

Modesty is personal and contextual

Authority

UPCI:

Pastoral authority is absolute

Other Traditions:

Pastors often accountable to boards or congregations

Secular/Humanist:

Authority should be earned and questioned

Gender Roles

UPCI:

Men lead; women submit

Other Traditions:

Ranges from complementarian to egalitarian

Secular/Humanist:

Gender is fluid; roles based on consent

Sexuality

UPCI:

Only heterosexuality accepted; LGBTQIA+ condemned

Other Traditions:

Mixed; some affirming, some not

Secular/Humanist:

Affirms all consensual identities and orientations


Worksheet: “What Do I Believe Now?”


What I'm Exploring Now

  1. What do I currently believe about:

    • Meaning or purpose in life:

    • Good and evil:

    • Community:

    • Boundaries:

    • Autonomy:

    • Spirituality (if any):

  2. What am I curious about, even if I don’t fully believe it yet?

  3. Where do I find hope, peace, or grounding now?

Building from Here

  1. What values do I want to guide my life moving forward?

  2. What kind of people, spaces, or practices support my growth?

  3. What does truth feel like in my body — not just in my head?

  4. If I gave myself full permission to believe differently… what would I let in?

You don’t need to rush to answers. You’re allowed to be unfinished, uncertain, and beautifully in-process.